Patience = Would Suffer?

Today I learned a crucial lesson from the events experienced by my friend, that is a patience. In different sizes, of course, everyone has experienced hardship and suffering in his life, so being patient is a role here, because patience is so important role in controlling feelings and behaviors. This is gradually being understood better and I bear in my life, trying to better interpret InsyaAlloh and take the wisdom of patience, because it's important to me in passing my days.
My best friend, honestly I really feel sorry to my friend on this one. Where tomorrow (July 6, 2011) is her 20th birthday, but she just get a test of life that requires extra patience. Sometimes I think people like her had experience the bitterness of others, and very complicated family problems. It all went through with sincerity and patience. Not infrequently she called me to devote all her anxieties. I often shed tears because no power to feel what she feels. I'd love to help her, but I couldn’t. I can only say the word patience many times to calm her. I feel guilty because I could not help her. I've never encountered a problem as complicated like this. I can only try to make happy happy with the silliness that I made. Miraculously it worked. she's the type of person who likes to joke, so she could forget her grief for a moment.

Lots of advice she gave to me, of course, on how to solve the problem with patience. she's    very good at once forbade me to do the mistakes she ever made. Sometimes I feel very touched and cried when remembering her words. There has never been a friend has been such a concern for me. I always prayed he was given strenght and elevated rank. It was not easy to be patience. There are so many temptations to sway hearts. Not that it's willing to suffer patiently, to tough, forgiving, and so on. However, this patient had close links with self-control so there is balance. People who are mentally unbalanced and reason are the ones who have a good level of patience. Thus, being patient is not only applicable when faced with any calamity, but rather is also applicable in various situations. I hope we all be classified as those who wait.